Messages that remind her she matters.
Pingher is the daily companion that helps men stay emotionally present in their relationship — through small, warm, personalised messages, gift ideas, and shared anniversary rituals.
The problem we're solving
Most long-term relationships don't end because of infidelity. They end because of slow emotional disconnection — the kind that happens when two well-meaning, busy people forget to keep showing up for each other in the small ways.
Source figures are illustrative and based on publicly available studies (NIH, Pew, Statista). We use them to frame the problem space, not as company claims.
What Pingher does
Pingher gives men a daily on-ramp to be more present — without forcing them to "do the work" of generating warmth from scratch.
Who Pingher is for
Primary audience
Married or long-term-partnered men, age 28–55, in the UK, US, Australia, and EN-speaking Europe. Tech-comfortable, busy, well-intentioned. They love their partner; they're not great at remembering anniversaries; they read articles like "10 ways to be a better husband" and forget by Friday.
Secondary
Gift-givers and parents of married couples (Mother's Day / Christmas gift), couples therapists who recommend tools to male clients, long-distance partners who want a daily "I'm thinking of you" rhythm.
— closed-testing feedback
Screenshots
Phone-captured screenshots from the live Android build. High-res versions available on request.
Status & traction
Stage
Google Play Closed Testing, June 2026 — invitation-only. Open beta & full launch later in 2026. iOS targeted Q4 2026.
Pricing
Pingher Basic — free, post-trial.
Pingher Standard — $1.99/mo or $20/yr.
Pingher+ — $4.99/mo or $39.99/yr (Claude Sonnet 4.5).
Tech
React Native (Expo) · FastAPI · MongoDB · Claude Sonnet 4.5 + Haiku 4.5 (Anthropic via Emergent). Push notifications, RevenueCat billing, Stripe web fallback.
Affiliate partners (live)
Just Eat (Sovrn) · Jeulia Jewelry (CJ) · First Class Watches (CJ) · Undercover Tourist (CJ). Amazon Associates, Booking.com Awin, Etsy Awin — pending approval.
About the founder
Pingher is built by Alan Gardner, a husband first and a builder second. Pingher started from a personal observation: most "be a better husband" content is either patronising or unactionable, and the men who'd benefit most aren't going to therapy because they don't think they're broken. They just want a quiet, ungimmicky daily nudge. Pingher is that nudge.